Wear your look & Not letting your look wear you.

You are confused? Yes, I know. All I'm trying to say is wear your clothes & not the clothes wear you. Still don't get it?

Let's take a friend of mine for example, he has very puffed up & straight hair so the last thing he would wanna have is a "not too short but not too long" hair, cause it's gonna make his head look big. Real BIG! He went to many different salons, both High end & low end, but he ALWAYS end up with some horrifying hair cut out & you know why? Cause the stylist would suggest going short at the sides but my friend will go like "I don't want it short, I just wanna cut a little." Then the stylist suggest that he grow it long(around e jawline kind of length) but then again he will reply "I don't want it so long & when growing, it's gonna look horrible." So of cause as a stylist, they have to give what the customer wants even if it's gonna look screwed. So after the hair cut, which look totally screwed up, he would walk out of the salon complaining that the stylist is skill-less. Seriously, it's not the stylist, I've cut his hair before & he said I screw it too. This happen so often(actually, history repeats itself everytime he steps into a salon)

So eventually I asked him why didn't he wanna get short hair?
His answer may just make some of your laugh & some others thinking hard.
"Cutting your hair on the sides short is for Gays only & I'm trying very hard to be discreet, cutting it short will blow my cover."
My reaction? Laugh my face off!!!
After the good laugh, I asked him then why not keep it longer?
He answered "That will make me look like a Tranny!(Trans-Gender)"
Seriously, if you're reading this don't get upset. Cause it's the Truth! So Face it!

Can you see? He is letting his hair wear him. He is setting up weird boundaries & I'm not getting it?
He is like tarnishing his image just because he feels that Short hair on the sides=GAY!!!
Seriously? Is he like Homophobic, even though he's a gay himself?
Anyway, not going to the gay topic. He is just too uptight about his image.

So please, don't be like him! Enjoy the Freedom of Expression & love whatever you've produced. Let no one stop you, You know that I'm talking to YOU!